grief as praise

a dear friend shared with me recently some difficult times they were having after a couple of hurtful betrayals from family members. i shared that it seemed they had some grieving to do. then i happened upon this quote. seemed to relate to their situation, as well as...

positive sex…

‘positive sex’ starts here… my dear friend/colleague Susan and I decided some time back to work on human sexuality textbook that she actually feels good about using in her classes. we figured that we might begin it as a blog, gathering our responses...

on finding a one…

friends recently getting engaged and married have reminded me that social norms and beliefs about finding the one are based on a scarcity model of love and relationship. if there is only the one what happens if we don’t find them? are we destined to wander...